When you say: you are Sooo skinny, *****. I think you’re trying to complement me but just don’t, please just stop. I’ll let the use of ‘*****’ as a term of endearment, go for now. But Skinny is not a complement. It’s a buzz word that evokes images of too thin runway models, and ******* thigh gaps. Please don’t associate me with #thinsperation. Social media is as divided on the issue as my thighs. Pitting skinny ******* against fat ****** all in the name of likes and follows and shares. They pray on our own need to validate our bodies and they know the fastest way to do so is to hate hers. But taking the media’s imposable beauty standards and turning it on its head than passing it on to me is just a game of tag that none of us can win. We are warring against our fellow woman in pursuit of the ideal female form. We are warriors behind the message boards fighting the good fight for say ‘health’ or ‘feminism’. Feminism does not mean do whatever you want say whatever you want. Feminism is not fat or thin. She is not lipstick or armpit hair. ****** or…not a ******. She is simply women, plural, because there are a lot of us. I won’t fight anymore with surface level insults, but I will debate you on how social media is the assemblage of all human depravities So the next time you call me a *****, leave my skinny *** out of it.