I am for you But I’m against what you do As long as you get what you want You don’t care who you use I am for you But I’m against what you say You’ll tell any twisted lie If it gets you your way I am for you But I’m against your philosophy “If you’re not for me, Then you’re against me,” I am for you But you’re against me You use the help I offer To get what you don’t need
You tell us you’re tryin’ to change Just another way you lie and steal You’re pushin’ everyone away All you care about is how you feel I won’t help you destroy yourself You can do that so well on your own Only you can help yourself The choice is yours, and it is yours alone
I am for you You know I am your friend But I refuse to watch you fall Over and over again I am for you But you have got to try You will never have respect When all you do is lie I am for you But I will not pretend If you’re not gonna help yourself Then this is where we end I am for you But I refuse to be Just another pawn Who helped you fall disgracefully
You tell us you’re tryin’ to change Just another way you lie and steal You’re pushin’ everyone away All you care about is how you feel I won’t help you destroy yourself You can do that so well on your own Only you can help yourself The choice is yours, and it is yours alone
There was a mutual friend in my main circle who continually lied and stole and pretended to change, over and over, for years, until we all got tired of trying to help only to be used again and again, until we had no choice but to cut our ties with him. I wrote this for him hoping that it would open his eyes where music and lyrics seemed to be the only thing he would really listen to, but even after reading/hearing it, he continued to play the same game of, "If you're not for me, you're against me." Unfortunately, some people refuse to care for anyone but themselves, and the only thing left to do is walk away.