Your marriage is going to to fill a large part Of your life, and the only way to be truly Satisfied is to marry who you believe is Great partner. And the only way to have Great home is to love your spouse.
If you have not found him/her yet; keep Looking. Don't settle. As with all matters Of the heart, you'll know when you find Him/her. And, like any great relationship, it just Gets better and better as the years roll on.
Mr. Jobs' Stanford speech of 2011 rhymes with King Solomon's immortal wise words in Ecc. 5:18 and 9:9, about love and work.