Whirling and seemingly showy, carefully flamboyant, controlling the measure of our spontaneity, stepping with gaiety that belies the degree of our solemnity, we dance around all of our unspoken words. Tossing our heads in pantomime of happiness, light laughter twirling behind our every revolution, meaningless words and gestures apparent to all that would try to see. We are waltzing with the elephant in the room, and it is crushing me.