I have been told twice in one week that I am flirting with a boy Twice in one week I have associated with a male I have laughed at jokes I thought were actually funny I have given well deserved hugs I have walked away with a smile on my face I have been told twice in one week that I am flirting with a boy Once by my friend, who assumed I wanted to steal her "toy" Once by my teacher who refused to take my side I cannot simply speak to a species with different genitals Without being called "thirsty" or "flirty" I am not sure if anyone realizes that maybe the conversation is actually funny Maybe I actually understand the joke Maybe I'm engaged in conversation because it is more intellectual than talking about quilts Maybe there is more to me than the simple teenage girl you claim to know.