"what we don't need in the midst of struggle is shame for being human" I have learned to keep my feelings to myself I have been taught that my struggles are shameful or attention seeking but that is not the case being shamed made me feel like my emotions weren't valid or that it wasn't something that should be talked about but that is not something to be taught to children cuz emotions are valid feelings and coping skills are valid but you can't grow and heal if you won't allow yourself to express how you feel you'll just struggle more is you ignore those feelings it is not shameful to feel what you feel the people who made you feel that way should be shamed for hindering you from healing