i sat down with my younger self for coffee. she was dropped off, i drove myself. she ordered a frappe, she was wearing a cat shirt with leggings i ordered a a latte , hoodie and leggings. not much changed she shared how she re-met our dad, and how she was excited for the relationship. i held her hands and told her to cherish while she could. she asked me if we got out of the relationship. i showed her our wedding band and pictures of kids and husband. she told me she was proud of me. i hugged her hard.