What's right? What's wrong? Just defends of the scenario.
Some will always see things a certain way. While others will try to always explain.
Concerning age, you figure common sense would come into play. Now some trying throw that to the waste side. Like apologizing when wrong. Some stays lost behind pride.
So, what's right? Your conscious will advise you. Then, what's wrong? Your mind and heart should tell you. Unless you happy being label a fool.