I have realized life is really about perspective for all the years i lived here all I could see was the darkness in others because that's all I saw in myself and now that i am slowly starting to see myself to love myself and to accept myself even just a little bit more I am starting to see the light in others around me the kindness in others of how kind and loving Israelis are and that women can be very kind and very loving I am starting to see the men around me too become more kind and loving. Maybe life is more simple than we think it is maybe a huge part of healing is just changing our perspective of ourselves and the world within and around us.