Look for the people who fall in love with your laugh. Not ones who fall in love with your style or your haircut or your makeup. Look for people who love your sneeze your eye color the way you wake up in the morning how you talk when your drunk how you hold your pointer finger on your nose when your nervous. Fall in love with the people who fall in love with the things about you that are unchangeable. that way you know they they have truly and honestly have fallen in love with you.