Once someone breaks your heart, it's hard to ever let your guard down. A new person, a new heart- one that does not beat so blissfully as it did before the heartbreak. We overanalyze their every word. Are they lying or do they really mean what they say? Maybe they're hiding something or maybe anxiety strikes again. Maybe they will leave at any moment, it wouldn't be the first time. Indeed, we try to think outside the box in hopes to avoid another heartbreak. In doing so we lose a part of ourselves.