Told be the lead but didn't like being responsible for others. It's always argument or fight he learned to do it on his own. Give his all and expect nothing in return. Pushing through even when he was burnt out. Growing up in the struggle learned to go without. Told to speak up don't hold anything in.
This helped him open up and write sometimes clear his heart. Told it was all in his head focused on the work not the drama. Getting older feeling less phased by gossip. Not talking about anyone and minding his business.