Don't be a slave to that term of Alpha male.
Many manipulate it to be totally in charge.
Control you like a child.
When you stated?
You want him to lead.

Yes, yes, it's one of those new come long themes.
Many great men know why they are blessed?
And it's wasn't about being totally in charge.

Because every man knows the woman of choice is boss.

It's like those seeking sapiosexual types.
Be not fooled by great spoken words.
Because in all honesty many are very intelligent.

What you might not know?
They just might.

And if that Alpha male becomes abusive?
Blame not his stupidity but the facts you gave up too much control.