I hate the word victim It's like you are ignoring All of the surviving a person has done Like you are looking at the trauma And saying you are a product of this But I'm not It's like you don't want to acknowledge The fact that we did survive And don't think your helping When you say it's not my fault And in the same breath ask me why I didn't scream loud enough Or ask for help But you will never understand What it's like to be so manipulated That your scared to lose your abuser