Somethings, aren't optional. We just don't push the issue so it becomes less relevant. Don't make saying I love you optional. Guys, say it to your lady. Yes, say it daily.
Don't wait for certain occasions to show your affection. This your woman. This your lady. She is your sword, she is your shield. So don't make saying I love you optional.
Some seek gifts t be recognized. Some seek words of support and comfort. But saying I love you will make her smile. Say it and watch that radiance of joy comes into her eyes.
Be not shocked? Be mot amazed. Saying I love you gets you various things.