Loving begins with a lover, a dishonourable person cannot love. Like hunting which cannot be done by just any hunter, loving requires ability; like fruit for the fruit seeker. ......loving begins with a lover..... So give the lover another option to love. Love requires intellect just like success requires intellect. ......love with passion and not illusion... When you love, guide your heart with deligience so you be not heartbroken. The hearts of many have been broken by love, while the hearts of some have been made whole by love. Love not to break the heart, but love to build the heart. When you love, don't only love; but love with care. Love with love and with faith; that your love be not abased. Love not for wealth, for it fades away. Love not for appearance, for it's deceptive. When you love, love for love, love for character; love for charisma. Love for personality, not for mediocrity. Love is a mystery