Free spirit, you were never really "my" child, though it pleased me to think of you so. Only for a time you allowed me to be familiar with you, share some of your life, some of your feelings. Now it is time for you to leave, and I must not regret your going, although I love you, not regret the letting go, because I love you. Then the part of you that once, long ago, imperceptibly grew inside my heart will stay forever, and you can always be, in any sense that you ever were, "mine".