Love is not cold winter nights spent in silent comfort by the warmth of the fire watching your dreams dance in the flame Love is not growing old in your favorite pajamas sitting behind a white picket fence watching the children grow in complacent certainty Love is not a back and forth of interests and expectations of reconstructed dreams and deconstructed preconceptions love is lasting these things are transient like chapters of a novel, they merely set the tone love/ is finding someone whose mode of insanity creates harmony with your own