Grieving gently and quietly Reminders of her everywhere As forward thinking marches through Justice Ginsburg's passing just makes it harder They came from similar backgrounds and ages People need to keep their distance Well meaning and supportive There is nothing happy about this state of mind Letting others deal is the best notion Spending time with those closest works Even then, respecting and knowing that as the Winter Holidays approach Making excuses and postponing and saying Not Know is the way to go