can you go inside yourself
see who's in there
understand that someone is in there
and ask yourself
is that someone
who you want them to be?

do you know who you are?
not just what you like
or who you know
but everything that makes you
you?

you don't.
you can't.
nobody can.

so don't try to change him
you can't change him
and if you don't
if you don't love that someone
then please,
let somebody love that someone
or he will rot
and die
and so will you