is not the screaming, not the gut-clenching holding/un-holding, fighting back tears, it’s not the I can’t do this anymores, or this isn’t workings, not the storming out, or the returning house keys, or the picking up your things, you left them here, they’re in a box on the porch if you want them back, or I can give them to Goodwill. Either way, you have a week.
The worst part of a break-up
is
much bigger much quieter much later
it’s that I can’t find a **** picture of myself that isn’t a picture of you, it’s deleting them, it’s selling those concert tickets, it’s unremembering, phone numbers, and birthdays, and what you’d find funny, it’s wanting to tell you, it's the ritual, the cleansing, the things that we do, the things that we have to do, to pretend that we’re not actually