It is important to remember Something can be both terrible And remarkably precious I can tell you that my father Has held me with all of the gentleness And care one would use To catch a snowflake in the air He has looked at me with awe, Love pouring out of him in a way That overwhelmed the both of us I can tell you that when my father Raises his voice, I am still afraid I do not know which is more relevant I only know that both are true