Sometimes there is no action, that will not cause a rift through lots of dumb scenarios, we sift and sift and sift if I do this then that, all these effect and cause makes us unable to act, we only can give pause but to do nothing is an action too so what are we to do? this round and round about is what leaves us feeling blue the reason for this is, we're afraid of what others think someone's always hurt or mad, it makes our stomach sink we cannot see the future, but God is in control constantly trying to predict, is what is taking toll if you think about it with a positive spin God can take whatever you do, and He can help you win All things work together for good for those who love the Lord so you don't have to fret about consequences you can't afford now, that being said, that only means if you are doing right because if not, you will end up in one big heartbreaking fight So pray and pray and ask Him for His guidance on this day then the consequences won't be too high for you to pay