It's not fat shaming, If you just say working out will help? It's not distrusting, If you just say you don't know them enough? Even if you call them out, You're the one put to shame.
Mum says "you'll get fat if you eat that"..."you need to exercise more"..."You can't go out with them, I don't know them well enough"..."You need to eat less"..."You need to watch your weight"..."It's not my fault you have no friends"... Yea so it's all my fault for this stuff, **** I just want one day for you to notice I'm trying and just say, "well done" or "I trust you", instead I'm shamed for trying cause I'm "not trying hard enough"