Don't love her for her beauty. In age skin wears rather thin. Hair falls out, and a sagging face produces a double chin. Don't love her for mind. In age it's sometimes forgetful, not as sharp nor as refined.
Don't love her for her talent. In age those precious gifts can fade away. What was so easy once to do has now shown some delay. Don't love her for her vitality. In age we all slow down. Her youth brought passion and sexuality but... In age it's hard enough just to get around!
In sickness and health should not only be for wedding vows. In age we often get sick, this you should expect and allow! Love her for who she is! The spirit never dies. Comfort her when she's in need! Wipe the tears that she cries. Hold her hand through the hard times. Be right there by her side! That's what real love is. And that, no one should be denied!