I cannot deny, The man could materialize anything I wished for. A passing fancy, an eye catching item could and did appear whenever in his finacial power to do so. I could have anything... I knew it too. But in the end all that fluff was to compensate for his lack of emotional richness. The lack of any character depth or owning a strong self-identity. I was never hungry with the man. My belly was always full. But my heart was always empty.