I was sitting on the grass, sad, Though I don't remember why, this was so long ago. I was sitting and thinking and sobbing.
My brother came and sat next to me, he looked worse, he looked as if he had seen something terrible.
"Can you give me a hug, Jude?" He asked and I thought, with my child mind, "I am the older brother. I have to act like a man. I'll put aside my sadness and comfort my little brother.
So, I hugged him. Then I asked him "What happened to you?"
"Oh, nothing. I'm fine" he answered "But you looked like you needed a hug".
That's when I knew, no matter the age, my brother was older than me.