I don't want to know whether they know or not-know (it's none of my business) by the same token they can't be bothered whether I were in this or that position--
is there any advantage to me if I do know? weighing every consideration- not to know would mean lesser woe for to know would distract and likely cause me worry or sorrow--
people come and people go they don't look at me anywhere I show problems of their own they have enough for life (sadly) is so-
this does make good sense then though you aren't a friend nor foe-
we are equalised neither of us need to know about the other fellow!