There are two actions of men:
THE FIRST ACTION.
If the man  meets with his girlfriend who falls in love with her:
He is so polite;
He hears EVERYTHING what she says:
it doesn't matter stupid or wisdom;
He tells beautiful words ;
He is  a bit shy;
He is ready to buy everything;
He just  tells  his achievements;
He just tells  his success
He just tells his good personal character.
He is  INCREDIBLE kind.
Because
She is Beautiful!!!!!!
THE SECOND ACTION.
If that man meet with girlfriend who doesn't respect:
You are nobody!!!
He doesn't hear even your breathe
He just tells about his problems
He just tells negative words.
He  just tells his  bad personal characteristics
He doesn't change his voice or voice tone.
You buy even coffee yourself.
He doesn't open the door.
He doesn't care how do you go to home
He is selfish!
He doesn't phone you.
He doesn't chat with you.
You always start to do it.
He asks to help
He asks to solve the problem
He doesn't care:
You are hungry or sick
He doesn't see even
How do you change your style
How do you change your hairstyle
How do you buy beautiful clothes
You work hard and earn much money
The reason is:
Just to be beautiful!
He doesn't notice it.
YOU are  THE Shadow !
You are Nobody !
You are the WALL!
He never thinks about you.
Cause, You are a pity girl.
Unfortunately,
You don't control your heart
You know what is love
After these ACTIONS or RELATIONSHIPS:
Your heart is getting to be STONE!!!
Your tears are getting to be ICE!!!
You promise yourself :
Never believe and admit that love is Happiness;
LOVE IS NOTHING for you.
LOVE IS THE IRON for you.
That's why,
Let's Think !!!!!!!!!!