"what is love?" a question asked by an inquisitive 3 year old love is something I have for you a well meaning mom attempts to explain love is what your dad and I have we love each other and we love you she says, trying to convince herself of the same you will be raised in a house full of love and that was her hope but she couldn't make a man love and so she taught her children what love wasn't but labeled it as what love was in hopes that they would feel like they had grown up in a loving environment but as adults they struggled their relationships never lasting because love had always been half hearted attempts on holidays and birth days but cruel words and inattention the rest of the year it had been painful and loud never soft and easy It takes a lot to peel off the label of love and realize that jar you'd been given was a misprint it took them years even a lifetime to rebuild an idea of love into something that was true