My daughter is 16 and thinks that she is a grown lady, the sassiness in her steps, the stares and smirks in the bathroom mirror, rosy fleshed cheeks chipper and glowing bright, as she dances and spins around like the wheels of a moving vehicle. I can see the upbeat swag in her hips, the iridescent charm in her flow, how her caramel brown skin glistens like the sun, like a sparkling diamond in the moonlight. And as she twirls her lustrous curly hair, I can hear her soft voice singing Brandy’s song, Sittin On Top Of The World, pure sweet harmonies rising in the air towards a sea of uncharted dreams. There’s the dazzle in her bright brown eyes, serene gleam and glossy red lipstick she tries to hide from me. Her mind is ahead of its time like the tremendous trees that stands in the background filled with so much knowledge and depth. But a part of me worries that she is becoming a young woman too soon. Some days when I’m home polishing the furniture and she walks in through the screen door, I can see the radiance and flirtatious grin in her frame, those various boys that got her losing her mind like a kingdom falling apart piece by piece. And when I try to talk to her, there’s the smart remarks that rises out of her mouth. Who do she think I am? She must not know that she is not too old to get an old-fashioned whipping. Back in the days when I was a teenager and we talked back to our parents, that was grounds for an absolute beat-down, the kind that had a stinging sensation of blazing rhythms, a swollen space of broken waves. Still, I understood the meaning behind those times, the many days when my parents showed me tough love in hopes that I would bloom into a blossoming woman. And now as I stare at my baby girl, I can only hope that she too will blossom into a beautiful flower.