Being sober is great Getting close to others is hard You don't want to offend ***** to be walking on eggshells shells Expectations lead to disappointment An ideal is easier than getting to know a person Trust a person who is not interested Some stay together because if history While others make it about *** Can't get close to anyone since they bail Broken hearts try to justify wrong doings Needy leads to clingy Can't get emotionally attached Impersonal and detached is more common