He hears:

You are worth it
Pursue your dreams
I support you

He is everything she longs to be, but he is still not close to being happy

She hears:

What smarts do your need
Go clean the house
What brains… Your looks are all that counts

His society fed these words to her and she was made to believe. Total submission
Do you see the difference? There are more of him and even more of her.

When will she try to fight back?