It remains in the present . Happened 1/2/3/4/5 yrs ago. They always got pushed away & forced to be forgotten. It remains in the present. No solution was ever talked out. The problems repeated itself. Through out the years. It remains in the present. Trust was broken . Never once has it been attempted to get fixed just worsens. “It was the past !” My feelings pushed under the rug. Never acknowledged. The past holds unsolved heartbreaks. The past holds tear drops that still tear now. The past holds “forgiving actions” That still happen.