research claims that everyone needs at least 12 meaningful touches a day just a touch that says "i see you" "thank you" "i love you" "i missed you" ... and living in a world where we go out of our way to avoid meaning and intentionality no wonder we feel lonely so much of the time 3 billion people living a state of inpenetrability believing that no one wants to touch them fearing to reach out themselves its a cycle of depravation and its so so sad