So a friend brought to my attention went to new york. All I can do is be happy for her. We grew apart and wanted different things. She is materialistic and prefers the finer things in life. I'm simple doesn't handle change very well. If things are good why change them. I found you can't stop change things are always changing. People come and go for a reason some you wish stayed and others glad went away.  I'm not a selfish person if you want to go I wish you the best. I'd wait so we can do it all over again. People hold on to memories but let go make new ones. Transition is hard it never happens right away when it does it's totally worth it.