now tell me what is the point of loving when it can bring such pain like a ball and chain we've all come accustomed to dragging our selfs forward like zombies under a spell why do we fall in love only to scrape our knees and hands and learn to love the pain are we as humans in love with people or in love with the idea of love the idea of someone to hold the idea of cheesy rom-com-like dates do we love to feel pain? or do we love, to feel pain?