The question is not when we meet our end, but how, and how does not mean what you think. Should it be fought, or welcomed as a friend? To that I say, live to the very brink however you have lived to now. Each one who walks though shadowed days finds their own pace; some stride, some cringe, some stumble, others run. What each can handle is what each will face. If talking seems to help, then speak. Or you might soldier on, clad in your armored will. No one can tell another what to do, just what they've done, for better or for ill. The path, if smooth or bumpy, is your own and should you choose, you need not walk alone.
Some days all I can do for another is pray...and at the time, it never seems like enough. Kol tuv.