Know yourself, not just the bad, know your limits, forget the trauma you once had. Feel your hands touch your face, be grateful for your individual look. Quit eyeing everyone around you, sit down with a reading book. Jealousy is a force, nerves are automatic. Anger is unacceptable and hostility is dramatic. Mean spirited behavior is wrong, so turn it into a play, book, movie, or song, and we can all join along, and feel your pain. Sometimes witnessing is how you win the game.