I believe..... In heaven we are dual You can married to your girl and still be stranger to her.. a kind of dual body in single brain You make love to her and other dual watch as a stranger.. You can eat food and other dual watches your eating... On other side She will nag you and her other dual enjoy the happiness of caring you.. She can shut you out and the other dual will possess you.. Happiness and Sorrow can live and experience together It's up to you Which door you want to open and live........... While other dual just watches for its turn........interesting Right.