My wife's family is a pack of wolves. One will be chosen, and the others pile on, tugging and tumbling the lucky winner, looking like they would tear the chosen one limb from limb. At day's end they huddle about the battered cub, licking its wounds and nesting warm and huddled.
My family was crocodilian, cold-blooded and waiting in preternatural prehistoric patience for a spot of blood as the excuse to pull the wounded one beneath muddied waters and devour their own.
So I lay in the weeds and watch the families go by....