You don't need him, you want him. Don't ever let a handsome boy with a cunning smile and eyes you could almost get lost in, ever tell you that you cannot exist without him. Sure losing him will hit you hard in the chest, your ribcage will feel like it splitting down the center and you might struggle to breath on your own for a while. But **** once you remember how, and trust me you will remember how, you are going to breath fire. You are unstoppable. You have a passion somewhere deep inside of you that could make an explosion. You are a force to be reckoned with; never let anyone forget that. You are everything and anything you could ever wish to be right here, right now in this moment. You are going places baby girl, but it's up to you where. So if he's holding you back, dragging you down, or pushing you in the wrong direction, you let him go. Blow away his presence as if he were a dandelion in the wind. And then, after you are free from the drought that has been preventing you from growing, you bloom honey, and you blossom into the woman you want to be.