she must have found what she wanted because here I am at 26 looking back she thinks she may have been too young but her and my father are not the divorcing type she tends her garden every spring and looks forward to visits from her sons she spoils her grand-dogs and is looking forward to grandchildren that may be years away but now there are friends to walk with on occasion, a party to host a wine cooler she confides in me that she is happy and would do it all again I'm too young for her advice but feel too old to require it even so, I listen