After all the pain and hardships I've seen My heart remains warm and soft I did not grow cold or harden in the wake of seeing the ugly parts of life However I find my heart more vulnerable The pain in others evokes pain in my own as I listen emphatically to their self loathing I understand the hatred towards the self And the broken heart from an old lover I have not grown cold over the years I have become a sponge and an open dam I let it in with open arms And let it all flood out, uncontrollably