Tonight she is crying calling via digital replies. There are zeros and ones clouding her eyes as she types out why she is hurting inside.
So, I reply with kind hearted attempts but it doesn’t seem right when it’s just a couple of zeros and ones. I want to offer one hand on her shoulder one deep look into her eyes to take her pain and truthfully reply.
Instead all I can do is text back “I am really sorry dude.” According to her zeros and ones she understands and appreciates what I have done.
But it doesn’t seem right to me. I want to offer my condolences in her presence so she can see my eyes, hear my tone, then accept or decline The hug I offer when I ask her if she wants to be alone. I’d just like to give her that option. Instead of giving her zeros and ones.