It's basic human nature We crave for things we can't have We desire for things that we know will destroy us And yet we do everything we can to try and obtain those things This particular trait of humans has always baffled me This insatiable appetite for self-destruction May be we seem to derive some sort of pleasure from this Or may be it's like an addiction And we can't just can't seem to help it For instance consider this-- You know you can't trust someone You know that the person will cheat on you at every opportunity He has done that in the past And yet you keep holding on to him 'Coz a part of your heart keeps hoping that he will love you and stay loyal to you Or it could be another case You both know the relationship isn't going anywhere You've both made efforts and it still hasn't worked out And yet you keep dragging it Hoping that things will change Only that they never do