i put a lot of effort into people who put way too little effort into me maybe i learned this from childhood i thought i was a daddy's girl but now i realize i clung to my dad when he was around because he wasn't around much i put way too much effort into people who put minimal effort into me and i'm working on letting go because yes i want to be the person who will cross oceans for someone who wouldn't cross a puddle for me because that is how you make the world a brighter place but it can be unbearable feeling like you are never anybody's priority