why would you greet a man with anything but kind words when his only other option is to explode to be heard if he wants your help, give it if he doesnt the choice is his dont presume that because he has what you want he wants what you give be honest with yourself about your all encompassing greed you dont want to help who needs help you want to help yourself to what you need if he has nothing worth taking then he can at least be the seed of the burgeoning budget for your military deceit