he's making you think that your tiny mistakes spell out your whole life's failure. You are not the sum of your mistakes. Especially not this one. Forget to turn in one application and your whole future isn't blown out the window. he's making you forget scale, forget proportion, forget love acting as though its the end of the world, he's wrong. he wouldn't know a good kid or a mistake if it slapped him in the face he doesn't know that his mistakes have ripped apart his family, torn his soul to shreds and you are not to blame. Dear Lord, you are not to blame.