I look in the mirror and I don't like what I see. My hair doesn't suit me and these clothes fit right. I fuss with my hair and would just cut it all off. I am not sure about shoes or make up. All of this fuss, I could just wear sweats, but then someone would think I am on my cycle. What does it take to determine who I am? What do I have to do to just be me? I am told to look like this and then to look like that. One direction says be a lady another says I can rough it. I am so tired of trying to decide who I am today, I just want someone to tell me how to be myself.